20 powerful self-love mantras to boost your confidence

“Self-love mantras are there to remind us that first you must learn to love yourself. Then you will begin to love the world.”

After coming out of a long-term relationship I began to recognise that my self-love was at an all time low. I was focusing so much of my energy on beating myself up for past mistakes and believing that I wasn’t truly worthy of love.

From as young as I can remember, I have always felt responsible for other people’s pain. This is a conditioned pattern that has caused me to sacrifice so much of myself to please others. I was living in a vicious cycle of self-blame and criticism.

Meditation and mindfulness have become a daily practice of mine. Over the years I have learned how important it is to pay attention to the negative thoughts and patterns that were influencing my life. And recently I noticed that my thoughts towards myself weren’t particularly kind or loving.

The thoughts you have about yourself influence every aspect of your life, so it’s important to pay attention to them and stop the self-destructive ones dead in their tracks. When you catch yourself ruminating over a negative belief about yourself, this is the time to pause and replace it with a self-love mantra.

When you begin changing your mindset from negative, self-destructive thoughts into self-loving thoughts, you start creating a whole new reality for yourself. You give yourself permission to feel loved, worthy and respected.

Remember it all starts with you.

What are mantras?

The Chopra Centre explains mantra as “man” = mind and “tra” = transport or vehicle. Together it means; an instrument of the mind of which you focus intent on.

So a mantra is basically reciting something in your mind, which plants the seed for and intention to grow. We unconsciously recite many mantras in our mind, they have become our conditioning. So why not intentionally set positive mantras to sprout seeds of love and joy into your life?

Repeating your chosen mantra when you start your day and before you go to bed will begin to create positive habits in your life.

Here are 15 powerful self-love mantras to increase your positivity and give yourself the love you truly deserve


Chose the mantra/s that resonate with you and repeat it throughout your day, giving yourself a boost of self-love when needed.

1. I am love

2. I am important. I matter

3. I radiate love

4. I love and respect myself. Always

5. I am happy being me

6. I trust in myself

7. I am enough. Just the way I am

8. I choose to love myself

9. I am deserving of happiness

10. I am worthy of love. From myself and others

11. I am beautiful

12. I believe in myself

13. I am in charge of my happiness

14. I always stay true to myself

15. I am powerful and strong

16. I am my own best friend.

17. I accept and love myself. Just as I am

18. I love and respect my body

19. My heart is always open

20. I am unique. I love me

Self-love mantras are a powerful tool to help shift your mindset from self-doubt to self-love. Remember your thoughts create your reality, so choose empowering thoughts to manifest the life you truly deserve.

What self-love mantras resonate with you? Share your comments below.

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